- If we judge others, it is because we are judging something in ourselves of which we are unaware. ~John A. Sandford - Whatever difficulty you face, there are time-tried ways you can listen your way through. Because listening is the doorway to everything that matters. It enlivens the heart the way breathing enlivens the lungs. We listen to awaken our heart. We do this to stay vital and alive. ~Mark Nepo - If we judge others, it is because we are judging something in ourselves of which we are unaware. John A. Sandford